some changes to the relayd.conf configuration language and grammar.
the tables will look more like pf tables, it is easier to re-use
tables with different options, "services" will become "redirections"
(they refer to rdr pf rules), sync configuration directives of
redirect (l3, ex-service) relay (l7) sections (for example "virtual
host" will become "listen on"), all target definitions will start with
"forward to", etc. pp. (see relay.conf(5) and etc/relayd.conf)
discussed with pyr and deraadt
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